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I find myself not doing things by the book so much with Grady. I'm following his lead more, and I don't worry about every little thing. Sometimes this can backfire, like when Grady was sick--Mike was pushing me to take him to the ER, and I kept insisting he was fine, it was just a cold and we would wait it out. I'm glad Mike pushed, because I don't know how serious things would have gotten, and we could have ended up in the hospital a lot longer than five days.
Most of the time though, this relaxed attitude is working out for us. I find Grady to be a pretty good baby, going with the flow and (usually) happy about it. He's sleeping through the night, and by that I mean he starts with a 4-6 hour stretch in his crib and then wakes to nurse a bit and spends the rest of the night in bed with us. This works out great, as I get some good rest and I also get that sweet snuggle time. With Ev, I was obsessed with when he was going to stop night waking, and when he'd sleep in his own bed. This time around, I'm enjoying having G in our room because I know it's going to be over before long.
I'm also not obsessing about the food thing. With Evan, I followed a strict schedule of when to start solids, did all the fruits and veggies by color, and was terrified he'd choke on a Cheerio. Grady's been slow to start solids, and he's not really a big fan of all things pureed. I'll give him a few more weeks I think before it's on to the good stuff. He seems to prefer the savory flavors--he's tried tomato sauce and Italian dressing, and he loves a good dill pickle. He's gotten a taste of cake frosting and chocolate too, and he liked both--he even tried to steal a KitKat from Daddy over the holidays. That's not to say G's going to be eating lots of junk, but I'm finding he prefers a taste of mashed-up veggies from our tofu stir fry to that jarred business. And I'm good with that. Wait until he has my pork and sauerkraut.
Posted by jenny at January 10, 2007 10:01 AM